One must ask am i ready for a long term relationship am i ready to settle down and start my own family or am i just enjoying the lust and pleasures life has to bring. So if u are ready for true love check out this test.
1. THE TALK FREELY TEST.
When u want to test your love the first question to think about is, can we talk with each other freely?
2. THE HABIT TEST.
The second question for testing your love is, Do i want to spend my whole life with this person, even if his/her habits never change?
3. THE NO- TOUCHING TEST.
The third question for testing love is, Do we really appreciate each others personality, or do we just enjoy touching each others body?
5. THE ADMIRE TEST.
The forth question for testing your love is, Do we have reasons for admiring each other, or Do we just have a lovely feeling?
NB: IF YOUR LOVE IS TRUE, YOU SHOULD HAVE SOLID REASONS FOR SAYING THAT HE/SHE WILL BE A GREAT LIFE PARTER.
4. THE KNOWING EACH OTHER TEST.
The next question is, Do you know his/her past and present?
5. THE LOVE FOR CHRIST TEST.
Are we helping each other to love Christ more? Are both of you interested in obeying and serving Christ or Is it just one of you that is really interested?
6. THE GIVING TEST.
Do you to give love and happiness to him/her. or Is he/she a happy person who wants to give love and happiness to me.
NB: TRUE LOVE WANTS TO GIVE LOVE, NOT JUST RECEIVE IT. TRUE LOVE CARES FOR THE OTHER MORE THAN ITSELF. TRUE LOVE SAYS " I WILL BE GENTLE AND PATIENT WITH YOU." "I WILL LISTEN TO YOUR PROBLEMS."
7. THE FORGIVE - AFTER - QUARREL TEST.
Ask yourself this, After quarrel can both of you say " I AM SORRY"? Can you forgive? Are you both unselfish enough to listen to each others ideas can both of you reach an agreement?
NB: IN TRUE LOVE, BOTH ARE SORRY TO HAVE HURT THE OTHER AND BOTH DO NOT DEMAND TO HAVE THEIR OWN WAY.
8. THE HAND IN HAND TEST.
Can your partner help you grow, can he/she hold you hand in hand has he/she grows up mentally, financially, socially, spiritually, academically e.t.c
SO CHECK YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER ARE BOTH OF YOU I A TRUST WORTHY RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU GUYS ARE JUST ENJOYING EACH OTHER ON A SEXUAL BASE ONLY.
